"Only those who are at home in themselves are ready for change." Thomas Hübl
"Only those who are at home in themselves are ready for change."
Thomas Hübl
Sep 16
2013

Meet Bev

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How do we heal, grow, and thrive as people? I firmly believe it is in relationship. We are wired for connection.

As a relationship coach, I support you in getting what you want, giving your partner what they need, and then cherishing and enjoying the closeness that healthy getting and giving brings.

I share insights of how your early childhood experiences impact your adult relationships. Through compassionate listening and gentle exploration, those shadows and often painful events can be integrated and healed so you can have the closeness you long for.

My core passion is educating and empowering you to live with a deeper level of consciousness and authentic expression so that you may feel committed to respect both yourself and your partner at the same time.

My husband and I have done and continue to do the work ourselves. We walk the talk and believe wholeheartedly in the work. Much of what I offer my clients are things I have done that have radically improved my own life and relationships. That's why I'm so passionate about helping you do the same.

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As your RLT Coach, I get quickly to the root of your struggles and help you figure out the steps you can take right now to move you and your relationships to where you want them to be. My approach is packed with effective strategies to help you create awareness and change right from the start.

I help you

  • identify and clearly say what you want and need
  • listen deeply and respond kindly
  • create appropriate boundaries
  • stand up for yourself
  • cherish and nurture what you have
  • remain lovers and friends

I believe that my clients are whole, worthy, and enough just as they are.

Here’s how it works.

I conduct sessions via video conferencing on Zoom or in person in my office in Modiin. Coaching includes text-based support in-between sessions as well as practices, action steps, homework, and resources.

Never before have we wanted so much from our relationships. However, we may be lacking the skills to get to true intimacy and closeness. This often leaves us feeling unheard and frustrated.

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As a relationship coach, I support you in getting what you want, giving your partner what they need, and then cherishing and enjoying the closeness that healthy getting and giving brings.

As a relationship coach I support you in getting what you want, giving your partner what they need and then cherishing and enjoying the closeness that healthy getting and giving brings.

Bev's Articles

Bev's Podcasts

Contact Bev

Professional Training

  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Path Center
  • Certified Life Coach Seminar Hakibutzim University, Israel
  • BA in Psychology and Education University of Cape Town
  • Honors in Psychology UNISA

Some Topics I Teach

  • Moving from you and me to us consciousness
  • Boundaries and Self Esteem
  • Identifying your losing strategies that pull you apart
  • Winning strategies to bring you joy and closeness
  • Accountability and Repair
  • Full respect living

Why People Love Working With Bev

  • Bev is amazingly non-judgmental. I grew so much just being able to share whatever was on my heart and mind. She has amazing insight and is an incredible support. Her positivity is contagious. And she always saw the good in what I did.
  • I have just completed six sessions with Bev. She has been an attentive and sympathetic listener and has been very helpful in her comments and suggestions. I am very grateful for her help.
  • I really loved our sessions. Bev is an excellent professional and a wonderful person.
  • Bev, Thank you for these moments that are full of peace, clarity and intention. My life is so much richer because you're in it.
  • Bev is an excellent coach. She was able to pick up and sense which details were important to work on. From the beginning I knew I was in good hands. Bev kept me on track and focused on me rather than on the situation and other people and their reactions.
  • Bev's coaching sessions were inspirational and reassuring. Having someone to talk to each week who believes in me was very positive. The worksheets and assignments made sure that I was thinking about the coaching over the week to organize my thoughts and prepare for the session.
  • For a long time it has bothered me that I didn't know what my purpose in life is. Bev very professionally and quickly helped pinpoint what my purpose is ( the thing that gives me pleasure and the feeling of being in my element) and helped me develop it and guided me and advised me how to fulfill it. I especially liked Bev's enthusiasm and encouragement even of the small, little steps that I accomplished.
  • Bev is amazingly non-judgemental.I grew so much just being able to share whatever was on my heart and mind.She has amazing insight and is an incredible support. Her positivity is contagious.And she always saw the good in what I did.
  • Bev has just been amazing! Working together with her has enabled me to regain my self-belief and confidence. Through this program, I have achieved an understanding of varied strategies and tools which has provided me with both direction and focus to better deal with life changes and lead a more purposeful life. I strongly recommend both the program and Bev Ehrlich.
  • I have known Bev for many years. She is a great source of strength to me in her coaching me through my struggles with relationships. because of the time I have invested with her, I have become a stronger person, and tackle my relationships with much more clarity. She has such insight and wisdom and I would highly recommend Bev to help "see the way forward. Thanks Bev!
  • Bev has an amazing ability to very quickly drill down and get to the point. I left every session feeling like the woods were clearer and I had direction again. I cannot thank her enough for all she has done for me and my family."
  • I am so grateful for Bev. When my confusion and doubt are daunting Bev has an outstanding ability to provide clarity, to offer another perspective, and to guide me along my journey.
  • There are not enough good words to say how much I appreciate Bev's patience, passion and undivided attention. For me it was like a stream of fresh air just at the time I needed it most.
  • Bev has a natural and warm way at communicating. She made me feel that I can make positive changes in my life.
  • Bev is a great facilitator and presents new ways to approach ongoing issues. It is also nice to learn with a supportive group of people in Bev's workshops.

True Facts about Bev

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  • I grew up in South Africa
  • I was born in the ostrich capital of the world.
  • I live in Israel with my husband Adrian
  • I’ve flown in a hot air balloon
  • I participated in a 4 km charity swim in the Kinneret Lake
  • I’ve hiked for days on the Israel Trail.
  • We have 4 children
  • I’m Savti (grandma) to our many grandchildren.
  • I’ve paraglided off Signal Hill in South Africa with my 90 year old father in law
  • Vounteer as a coach in a local support organization
  • I’m not into extreme sports.