"Nearly every moment of every day, we have the opportunity to give something to someone else- our time, our love, our resources." S. Truett Cathy
"Nearly every moment of every day, we have the opportunity to give something to someone else - our time, our love, our resources."
S. Truett Cathy
Oct 21
2020

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Intimacy Through Community: Rethinking Connection Beyond the Nuclear Family
Discover how community, diversity, and inclusive connection can create a more sustainable foundation for belonging and relational resilience—especially in a time of increasing speed, loneliness, and disconnection.

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Bridges, Breakthroughs, and Second Chances: Healing Across Generations and Relationships
In this episode, Nancy Pickhard and I explore the tender terrain of repairing love—between romantic partners on the brink, and between mothers and their adult daughters. From second chances in young love to lifelong patterns in family ties, we’ll unpack what it takes to heal, reconnect, and build bridges that last.

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The Art of Sensate Focus and Intentional Touch
In this episode my guest Alice Lindy and I explore how intentional touch can deepen connection and intimacy.

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Two Couples Coaches #8 How to Bring More Respect Into Your Relationship
In this episode, we explore Full Respect Living—what it is, how disrespect shows up in relationships, why that is so harmful, and what you can do about it.

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Two Couples Coaches #7 Me First: The Surprising Truth About Self Care and Healthy Relationships
Why is it so hard to do the things we know are good for us — like getting enough sleep, eating well, staying active, nurturing relationships, and finding purpose? In this episode Bev chats with, coach Rivka Klein–de Graaf. Together they explores the gap between knowing what we need and actually following through. Drawing from The GPS Within — a method Rivka co-developed with Dorit Shoshani — Rivka reveals how true change begins not with discipline, but with self-awareness and emotional insight.

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Two Couples Coaches #6 Short Term Gratification vs Long Term Relational Joy
Today, we're talking about something we see all the time in our work—people chasing gratification instead of growing into relational joy. As Terry Real says, "Relational joy is not the high of self-medication or acting out—it's the quiet contentment that comes from true connection, with yourself and others." We'll explore what that means, how gender can shape how we deal with pain, and how self-esteem isn't about perfection—it's about self-compassion.

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Two Couples Coaches #5 Conversation with Andrea Masters
In this episode, Suzette and guest Andrea Masters share how they each discovered Relational Life Therapy, why it's been transformative in their work with couples, and what clients can expect from an RLT Bootcamp. Plus, a simple practice to help you show up more relationally in your everyday life.

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Two Couples Coaches #4 Moving from Complaint to Request
We all complain—but does it actually help? In this episode, we explore why complaining keeps you stuck and how to shift into something more effective: making clear, direct requests. With real examples and practical tips, we'll help you move from frustration to empowered communication in your relationship.

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Two Couples Coaches #3 Boundaries in Relationship Not a Wall, Not a Door!
In this episode of Two Couples Coaches, we’re breaking down what healthy boundaries actually look like in relationships. Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out or letting everything in—they’re about protecting your emotional space and staying connected. Using real stories, practical scripts, and insights from Relational Life Therapy, we’ll show you how to tell what’s true for you, and how to handle feedback without falling apart.

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Two Couples Coaches #2 Losing Strategies How We Sabotage Our Relationships
In this episode, we explore five common "losing strategies" that quietly sabotage connection—like needing to be right, control, withdrawal, retaliation, and unbridled self-expression. These patterns may feel justified in the moment, but they often create more distance and conflict. We share relatable examples, offer alternatives, and invite you to reflect on your own go-to strategy when things get hard.

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Two Couples Coaches #1 - Welcome to the Two Couples Coaches Podcast
In our first episode, we introduce ourselves, share why we started this podcast, and give you a feel for what's coming. We talk about the relationship skills most of us were never taught, what couples need to thrive, and how even small shifts can create big change. Whether your relationship is solid or struggling, this podcast is for anyone ready to grow, connect, and do things differently.

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How to Balance, Nurture and Strengthen Personal & Business Relationships in Turbulent Times
Recording from Professional Women's ONLINE Networking Forum with Business Coach - Host Lesley Kaplan and a panel of professionals: Bat-Chen Grossman | Connected for Real, Susan Barth | Together in Happiness, Beverly Ehrlich | Transformational Life & Relationships Coach

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Brain Health and Relationships
In this conversation, Bev and Donna de Villiers chat about how relationships impact us and how important it is to nurture a healthy connection with our partners and family.

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Religious Differences Within Marriage
Bev talks to Suzette Halterman about navigating different levels of religious participation and different religious perspectives within her Jewish marriage. She also talks about what it is like living in Israel currently during the war, and things we can learn about being relational human beings no matter what our circumstances.

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Rebelpreneur Radio: How to Thrive in Relational Recovery
As a relationship coach, Beverly firmly believes that we heal, grow, and thrive through healthy and cherishing relationships. In this podcast she shares how we can all be empowered and choose full-respect living.

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Empowerography Podcast: Intimacy Demands Democracy
In this latest podcast Brad Walsh and Bev Ehrlich go deep into managing relational conflict and some of the most common challenges that couples face.

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Things I Didn't Learn at Harvard: Harmony, Rupture and Repair...
Beverly Ehrlich is a relationship coach. She firmly believes that we heal, grow and thrive through healthy and cherishing relationships that show appreciation for each other’s strengths and build on them.

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Behind your Eyes
Susanne Kooijman has a heart to heart talk with Bev Ehrlich. Bev is a relationship coach. They talk about the importance of togetherness, why the feminist movement steered us away from that togetherness, how to get the best out of relationship therapy and so much more!

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Bringing Couples Back into Healthy Connectedness
In this podcast, Bev covers: What to do if your partner won't go to couples therapy. How to hear your partner's pain to let the healing begin. Do you think you act like a Rottweiler? What is the best way to end your day with your partner? What does it mean to be 'stuck as a two-brained team? And more...

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Living Relationally
Click on the podcast player's play button below to listen to Bev's discussion with Julie Elves on how we can live more relational lives.

 

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Intentional Goal Setting: Taking a Pause, Coming Into Ourselves & Listening to the Wisdom of Fear

You can set intentions and make your dreams come true by being relational and asking for specific help and support.

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Oversight Global Transformation Channel: "The Energy of Gratitude" Series with Angelie Kapoor

We all know that gratitude is important, but sometimes it's hard to make time for it in our busy lives.

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Mindful Men: Patriarchy, Feminism and Relationships with Simon Rinne

Life isn't about binary male, and female attributes but rather about becoming full human beings who are entitled to express their rich inner emotional landscape.

Matt Rosenblum interviews Bev

Professional Training

  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Path Center
  • Certified Life Coach Seminar Hakibutzim University, Israel
  • BA in Psychology and Education University of Cape Town
  • Honors in Psychology UNISA
bev ehrlich rtl certification

Some Topics I Teach

  • Moving from you and me to us consciousness
  • Boundaries and Self Esteem
  • Identifying your losing strategies that pull you apart
  • Winning strategies to bring you joy and closeness
  • Accountability and Repair
  • Full respect living