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How can you be in a Relationship without Self-love?


"An outstanding love doesn't come from two half-fulfilled people coming together to make one whole, complete life. Outstanding love comes from two whole people coming together to share and enhance their already full and beautiful lives." ~Pia Scade

My client L recognized that it can be difficult to be in a relationship without self-love. Often the insecurities lead to conflict.

If you are in a relationship where self-love is lacking, and the space between you is needy, and annoying, it's possible to turn things around.

Try to maintain a degree of space and independence. Begin to see yourself as your partner sees you. Don't get disheartened when you notice your shortcomings. People who are "perfect" are the loneliest people in the world.

Self-love is important for enjoying a happy, healthy, and respectful relationship. When you are secure, confident, and feeling good about yourself you bring positive energy into the space between you.

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This is what L. had to say about our work together. "Bev is an excellent coach. She was able to pick up and sense which details were important to work on. From the beginning I knew I was in good hands. Bev kept me on track and focused on me rather than on the situation and other people and their reactions." 

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